Which finger do you wear your ring on when you're engaged?

It's a question many people ask themselves the moment they consider taking the next step in their relationship. An engagement ring is much more than a piece of jewelry – it is a symbol of love, commitment, and a future together. But which finger should the ring be placed on – and why that particular finger?

At Viclara, we help you understand both the tradition and the options, so you can make the choice that feels just right for you as a couple.

The engagement ring and the ring finger – symbolism through the ages

In Denmark – just like in many other Western countries – the engagement ring is typically worn on the ring finger of the left hand. This tradition comes from the romantic notion that a vein – called the vena amoris, the vein of love – runs directly from the ring finger to the heart. Although modern science does not confirm this, the symbolism still holds strong in the hearts of many couples.

The ring – a circle with no end – has long been a symbol of eternity and endless love. In ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome, the ring was used as a love token and a promise of unity.

Right or left hand? Traditions from around the world

While the left ring finger is the tradition in Denmark, some cultures choose to wear the engagement ring on the right hand. In Germany, Norway, Russia, and several Eastern European countries, for example, the norm is to wear the engagement ring on the ring finger of the right hand. This may be due to cultural differences, religious traditions, or practical reasons.

Some couples even choose to switch hands after the wedding – for example, moving the engagement ring to the right hand and letting the wedding ring sit closest to the heart. Others choose to wear both rings together on the same finger. The most important thing is to choose what makes sense for you as a couple.

Which finger do you wear your ring on when you're engaged – and why it matters

The question "Which finger do you wear your ring on when you're engaged?" is not just about tradition – but also about symbolism and identity. The placement becomes a visible declaration of your choice and your love. It's a way to signal to friends, family, and the world that you have taken a step closer to sharing your lives together.

The engagement ring is often worn every day and reminds you of the promise of love you have given each other – both in thought and in action.

Engagement rings for both women and men

Today, it's much more common for both partners to wear an engagement ring. Previously, it was typically women who received an engagement ring during the proposal, but now many couples choose to share this symbol – either with matching rings or individual designs that suit each personal style.

Wearing a ring for both partners is a beautiful way to show equality and togetherness in the relationship – and a strong statement of your love regardless of gender or expression.

Design, comfort, and meaning in perfect harmony

An engagement ring should feel right – both visually and physically. At Viclara, aesthetics and functionality go hand in hand. It’s about finding a design that reflects your style, but also a ring that can be worn every day with joy.

Our selection of engagement rings and jewelry is designed with a focus on craftsmanship, personality, and comfort. Whether you dream of a classic look or something more unique, we are ready to help you find the perfect ring.

A ring with roots and a future

An engagement ring can also have a story. Some inherit a ring that has been in the family for generations – others choose to create their own tradition by designing a new ring that can later be passed down. No matter what, the ring becomes part of your shared story.

From ancient symbolic exchanges to modern declarations of love – the ring has always stood as a powerful sign of unity. Today, it is not about making an agreement between families, but about making a voluntary, loving, and equal choice.

What do you do with the engagement ring after the wedding?

As the wedding day approaches, the question arises: What should happen to the engagement ring?

• You can wear both rings on the left ring finger, letting the wedding ring sit closest to the heart.
• You can move the engagement ring to the right hand, where it can stand alone as a special keepsake.
• You can have both rings set into one design – a popular solution for those who want a cohesive aesthetic.

There is no "right" solution – it all comes down to your preferences. At Viclara, we are happy to help with inspiration and guidance when it comes to combining and customizing your rings.

Get personal advice at Viclara

Are you planning to propose? Have you just gotten engaged? Or is the wedding approaching? No matter where you are in the process, we at Viclara are ready to advise you with heart and expertise.

We help you find an engagement ring that balances emotion, style and practical considerations – and that can be worn with joy for a lifetime. See our selection of engagement and wedding rings, and let us find the perfect symbol of your love together.